One thing everyone in greek life looks forward to after becoming a new member is getting a big. “But, what is a big?” “What do you look for in a big?” “What if I don’t pick the right one?” Don’t worry. Everything turns out okay. I promise.
But, when you’re going through big/little bonding, there are a few things you need to look for.
Not only do you want someone you can talk to and get along with you also want to pick someone you can look up to; someone who inspires you within the chapter. Look for a role model first, and a best friend second. A big is not supposed to be your best friend (though it’s amazing when they are) - a big is the person you go to when you have a problem or need advice.
If you’re confused about anything:
First: Role model.
Second: Best friend.
Lastly: YOU HAVE YOUR BIG.
Big/little bonding, week, and reveal is supposed to be fun, so try not to stress. Everything WILL turn out okay! You will find your perfect big and she will love you with all of her heart.